I just realized something. The message that I've resisting or trying to avoid is now in front of my eyes. The deeper you understand it's meaning the better you get to know your soul.  But the main fact is that we are too scared to believe it.

•Nothing is eternal, not even joy, suffering or sorrow. Everything comes and terminates within a time-lapse. 

• Choosing a right path i.e path of justice and equality on which everything is true but harsh is like walking on thorns in the beginning but the fascinating part is that it is the only path that could comfort your spirit in such a way that you have never felt before. 

• It's never too late to ask forgiveness. 

•When your intentions are pure, you'll get what you've been praying for. This might take a while but it would be given to you. 

•Sleeping,eating, breating even reading this text without any problem is one of the biggest gift of God. 

Why Most People Will Never Be Great At LIFE, LESSONS,EXPERIENCES

 A normal day in the home, Laying in my room.  Had nothing to do, I suddenly started to stoop towards the core of thoughts. It's strange how doing nothing makes your brain function faster. Just a random thought on life.

Life is like an onion, it's a mystery is enveloped by various layers of fallacies, indulgences, allures, bitterness, and complexions. It gets hard to peel each layer out to uncover what's underneath it.

One's who tries to excavate this paradox goes through pain, clashes, and tears. Some don't bother to go through this majestic maze because it's too glamorous to slove.

All these years before we were born, emperors, leaders, saints, soldiers, commandos, Sufis, dervishes, kings, and queens appeared. Most of those who had powers to govern people were fascinated by the embellishments, wealth, proclamation and big palaces that they forgot what life is. Actually, they were the ones who never explored life. They got what they wanted by their ability to give commands. While on another hand, Sufis saints and beloved people of God gave their soul for the search of Almighty by the means of which they found their definition of life. They were never aroused by all frills and they were the ones who knew the true meaning of breathing.

We can't learn lessons while laying on the bed of roses. It's necessary to go through the forest of thorns. Rain won't seem lovely if there won't be drought before it. Even stale food is tempting and delicious when you are starving for days. You won't know what love is if you are not hurt before.

Life is nothing unless you experience it. Leaving all the cliché behind and try to explore on our own. You will fall, you will rise, but not losing rope of exploration would be wise.

Lots of 💘
Missable

The most important thing people have forgotten..

One thing that poeple have forgot: 

We live in a world where we all are being observed by people 24/7. We live in a world where we are judged by anonymous and annoying people all the time. We live in a world where we point finger on other people rather than keeping it in our pocket. 

The most important thing that people have forgot is that they are human. What I mean to say is that they are not perfect. They might have considered themselves as angels. 

Each person has two side, enlightened one and the dark one. Each person is living with either hell or heaven inside him. Sometimes, he is not responsible for choosing the dark side or the hell but some circumstances compelling him to do so. But he has a strong believe that one day he will make his heart as beautiful as a humming bird but unfortunately, he forgot that people would never let him do that. 

Everyone should remember that we live in our shoe and that shoe could be replaced from comfortable one to painful one anytime. 

This one thing hurts me the most, ranking people based on who they are. Oh come on! Even if we are perfect, Mighty God will not give this right to anyone. Nobody lives in our heart except God therefore, the one who knows us the most is Him. 

We need to stop judging people, I think there would be less suicides if we start loving each other equally. Everybody is fighting an evil inside them and sometimes they win and sometimes they loose. All we can do is to appreciate them in the fight of becoming a better person. 

We can never find the love of God if we won't stop hurting his mankind with our words. 

Lots of ❤ 

Missable 

How to be chill AF

How to be chill:

Some critics in life are worth a lesson but alot of them are just lame as an organized cupboard. Some critics help you to groom as a person and some just let you down.
Here are some tips and tricks to be chill without humiliating others:

• Train your brain to be in third dimension when these kind of meaningless and useless talks are being held. 
• Never argue alot with them because they can never stand an argument and they would start to hit upon your personal lives.
• Prefer not to take them seriously cause they never think before uttering crap and it could harm your good traits.
•  Never dread if your deadlines are near. You should have confidence on yourself that you can fulfill any task given.
• Maintain some distance with them because they can leave you with dull and dark aura. https://onemissablelife.blogspot.com/2020/03/aura-science-and-reasons-behind-it.html
• Try to truce yourself in public places cause later, it could feel unpleasant.
• Mediate. It detoxifies your body and increase our maturity for sudden responses. 
• Say NO to things that makes you uncomfortable or dissatisfied.
• Give yourself some time
• Spend money on events that makes you happy.
• Spend time with those whom may know to cheer you up.
•  Saunter around nature. 
•  The most important, " love yourself". 

Healthy diet

HEALTHY DIET

Being surrounded by temptious and attractive junk food, we have lost the significance and utter delicious value of healthy food. We might not tilt towards it until late we get old. But you should know what is a healthy diet.

• DEFINITION: A healthy diet is a the type, amount, quality and portions of food that you eat that benefits your whole body.

• NUTRITION: A healthy meal is packed with essential nutrients (carbohydrates, proteins, fats and fibre) that you need for your body to carry on your daily life’s tasks without being lethargic.

• VITAMINS: A healthy plate have enormous amount of essential vitamins. Vegetables and fruits are great source of vitamins.

• PORTIONS: A healthy diet comprises of more than three portions of meal per day.

• CALORIES: A healthy diet should comprise of balanced nutrients, portions and quality of food that it meets daily calorie requirement i.e 2500kcal for men and 2000kcal for women.

• TIPS FOR HEALTHY DIET: For a healthy body and diet, you should

• Add vegetables

• Avoided oily food

• Add protien in a healthy way

• Avoid alcohol

• Have fresh juices

• Add fiber to diet

• Have fruits

• Make it scrumptious and appetizing by adding flavors to it

Coronavirus situation

Even after doing all the assigned tasks. It feels a little weird to be at home all the time. Even when you are done with all the work, you still find some time in spare. Those little anxiety attacks that comes every half an hour to tell us how much idiotic we are. Opening the fridge all the time to eat something just because of boredom. Thinking about all the weird situations that's never gonna happen. Imagining yourself as a celebrity and much more dumb stuff. Waking up in pj's, doing chores in pj's and taking a bath and getting into other pj's is very repetitive. Finishing Netflix series in a day and always looking for a message of your friend on notification bar.
Missing those hangouts and thrills in life and waiting for the day to come when this pandemic would be finished and all those curfews would be lifted and we would finally get a chance to meet our loved ones and to start new adventures with them.
And in the future, we would be telling our kids about this coronavirus pandemic and would be flexing upon our kids thar how we became an avenger by staying at home all the time😂.
How you liked this light and subtle blog during these stressful days❤
Lots of ❤

How to find perfection in people:

How to find perfection:

Everything around us is a creation. Everything around us is just a masterpiece crafted with finesse and delicacy. But in reality, its not an ideal masterpiece.

Any event planned by state of the art organizers is just an absolute perfection. It seems like even the air is directed to blow at a impeccable time. But in reality,  it's nowhere to perfection.

Just like things created by people in this world, Perfectionism is a word that is not implicated on humans. Perfection means the thing without any flaws and there is no such person without flaws.

 The point that I am trying to say is that nobody is ideal but it's our eyes and heart which makes it either flawless or ugliest.

We see what we want to see, we listen to what we want to hear and we consider those perspectives that we want to understand.

Our bodies and souls are entirely different from each other, that's why the definition of being indefectible is different for everyone. It's something inside you that's decide your perfection or flaws.

Let's appreciate each other the way we are, let's be thankful for what we have and for what we can do. Let's see things from various visions and minds. Let's be smart enough to not to implement dictionary's word "idealism" in real life.

Lots of ❤
Missable

Living in the dark side

Living in the dark side: 

How are you? Is everything good? I hope it would be. What? Something is not okay. Are you happy? What's bothering you? What's the thing that's resist you from being happy? Let's find it together. 

Let's see. Someone dumped you? Okay this didn't happen. Do you want some money? Again no... so what's the problem. Let me think, Can't get out of your wounded, painful, and bleeding past? Oh! I can feel you. That's why you resist people and you lack trust. Someone closest to you really stabbed you. 

I know, it happens and it hurts alot. It feels like world is not trustable. Even that past is over, it still have some influence on us.

We move on, but not completely.  We meet new people and after a while we do not like them, we begin to see their negative sides a.k.a their dark side. This way of observing can even hurt those who loves us the most.

It's no one's fault. The problem is simple that when we start to live in past, we compare everything to our past which is alot of times, wrong. We think that whole world is dark, but actually we are in the dark side of life.

You are not only living in the dark, but you are also loosing you present and future for it. We become enclosed in such a dark, deep cave that we don't like even the smallest glare of light. We get used to smell of drowned wrecks and algae that scent of beautiful flower irritates us.

Opening of eyes is not the only thing important for living, you have to open your heart to so you can slay the enlightened, fragrant and delicious side of world.

World does not entirely consist of bad people, if it was, either nobody knew what happiness means or humankind would've become extinct.

Fight with your dark side, feel the light and you'll soon have a precious smile on your face all the time ☺.
Hope this blog would lift you up.
Lots of ❤
Missable 

MOST VIRAL DALGUNA COGFEE RECEPIE...

DALGONA COFFEE RECEPIE: 

It was a normal day as rest of them, I was in the cage of boredom. While scrolling through the internet, I saw a tempting and mouthwatering dalgona coffee picture. My brain just went under the wing of dalgona coffee and within a minute I decided to make it.

INGREDIENTS:

Serving:1-2
• Coffee 2tbsp
• Sugar 2tbsp
• Milk
• Ice cubes
• Lukewarm water 2tbsp

METHOD:

1. Add coffee, sugar and lukewarm water in a small bowl or mug
2. Whip it with the beater until it becomes stiff and doesnot fall from spoon
3. Pour half a glass of milk( cold preferred) and ice cube.
4. Fill up rest of the glass with the coffee whip
5. Mix it well and your dalgona iced  coffee is ready.

RANT. WHAT A DENTIST HEARS.

WHAT A DENTIST HEARS..RANT ON THE WAY:

I am  a dental student. I  happy with my field and I love to invest my brain in this profession. But while enjoy this beautiful life, people ask strange question to us and even practicing dentist that are sometimes, weird to answer. 

• "What does a dentist study in four years, only teeth? "
• "Oh you are a dentist..not a doctor." Well see when you'll get your jaw fractured🙂.
• "What does a dentist do, huh! Only clean teeth".
• "When you'll become a dentist, would you do my checkup for free? "
• "I  your regular patient, can I get a discount today?" Trust me dear, you'll never say this to a neurosurgeon.
• "You guys earn alot".
• "Dentistry is easy "

All these sentences might annoy us sometimes, but there are alot of precious moments that made us proud to be a dentist. Here are some random points that everyone should know,

• We practice for perfection for years
• Each of our treatment has art and techniques in it.
• We make your smiles the prettiest.
• Alot of people feel more confident when we enhance their smiles. 
• Our body aches in the end of each day. 
• Dentistry is soo difficult that is has one of the highest suicidal rates. 
• We do not only study teeth, but also all the essential subjects related to your face. 
• You might see our earning, but there's alot of hardworking and tired face behind the mask. 

It's not only about dentistry, it's about all professions. We must learn to respect each and every field of education. That's what makes a nation prosperous. Lame questions used to hurt me alot, but now I've become a chill person who loves what she does and doesn't give a damn. 

Lots of ❤

Missable 

Will power..key to survival

WHAT IMPORTANT THING HELP US TO SURVIVE? 

This question is quite normal. Everybody knows the answer. But my answer is something different. My answer is will power. 

Will power is something that never let's you loose hope, it is something that makes you fight till the end of you last breath. It is your inner stamina that let's you win over anything. 

People might think that I am crazy or irrelevant. But trust me, if you have enough thirst to live, no matter how deadly situation is, your fear of death would be vanished. 

When your will power would reach that threshold, you would become a fearless lion who is ready to tear everything that comes in his way. 

Our will power would make us a survivor in any kind of calamity . Otherwise, we might become a dead person inside and sometimes outside too. 

Don't loose hope, strive to survive. Do anything to crush your fear,there's nothing that could come between you and your goals. There's a lion inside you that's roaring, never loose him . In the end, we will win together🤗

Lots of ❤

Missable 

Quarantine thought: Are friends real?

Quarantine thought: who are friends? 

Sometime, laying all time in bed and do nothing makes my brain work much faster. I can call it my superpower 😂.  But really, who are friends and how would you define  friend(s). Let's dig in this topic together 

● They are the one who won't issue a demand list to you to become your friend. They love you in the way you are and they want you to love them the way they are. 

● They enjoy all moments with you. 

● They are the siblings that we never had. 

● Your understanding level with them is infinite. 

● They won't pressure you for anything you don't want to do. 

● Having a bad day, they are the cheerleader who would make you day better.

● They can induce joy down your spine.

● No matter how many differences you have, you don't want to break the bond with them.

● They can burry your deep secrets in their hearts.

● They would be always there for you anytime you want them.

● They are your best supporters.

You are lucky to have friends. After the end of pandemic, make sure to give your friends a big hug. I can't wait to see my friends. 

Lots of ❤

Missable 

Short blog....first step

The first step:

Did you ever feel like your are stuck. Does ever happened to you that you don't belong to this place. Ever wanted to live a life of serenity where there is only one connection, between you and The Almighty One.

Ever felt like something wrong is being done in your society, we cannot do anything about it because standing against those clichés could be dangerous because majority of people surrounding us are followers of those culture.

But remember, one thing matters the most, listen what your heart speaks. One thing that I know is that our heart never tells something wrong. It is the place where God resides. Your brain might ditch you but heart never does.

I know you might say that heart never speaks, but to me it does. When you see something wrong or unjust, you would feel like someone inside telling you that this should be stopped, but our brain suppresses these signals due to fear, fear of being disowned.

But when in love of God, your fears are erased, you don't care what the world would say or think. You feel it when it is wrong in front of God, in front of your heart and in front of your soul. You fight against it and there would be alot of hurdles but it doesn't matter to you and in the end, you would feel a relieve, a soothe, a calmness in your life.

Don't be scared, just take the first step and The One who created us would be there, leading us towards right way through our heart.

Lots of ❤
Missable

Aura-science and reasons behind it

What is an Aura? 

It is an distinctive atmosphere that is produced and to be sorrounded by the same person, place or thing. 

It can be related to the atmosphere of our surroundings. 

Science of an aura: 

Science could be hard to explain so let me elaborate it in simple terms. 

We all know that our body is a summation of various mechanism occurring inside. While our organs are working, it produces electric and magnetic vibrations which are summed together to form bio-energy. This energy radiate field of different levels which occupy a specific color but still, unseen by naked eye. 

How does an aura looks? 

An aura looks like a colorful glow that's comming out of a person. A bright aura represents high energy around the object and a dull/dim one indicates a sign of disorder or sickness. Aura is captured by highly sensitive cameras. 

Kirlian photography: 

This kind of photography is related to capturing of auras of an object and we're first invented by Semyon Davidovitch Kirlian in 1939. Even today, this kind of photography is still questioned. 

To learn more about this photography visit https://www.lightstalking.com/what-is-kirlian-photography-the-science-and-the-myth-revealed/amp/

How does Auras are helping the world?

There are people who do not anticipate auras but scientific researches  have found these colorful atmosphere as an important tool to understand people's emotional, physical and mental health and that's why auras are used as a diagnosis for any kind of illness.

Aura and colors:

Auras have different color each of which describes different mood and situation of your body. It's colors are 

• Red and it's shades
• Orange and it's shades 
• Yellow and it's shades
• Blue and it's shades
• Green and it's shades
• Silver and it's shades
• White and it's shades
• Brown and it's shades 
• Turquoise 
• Lavender 
• Gold
• Indigo
• Violet
• Black
• Earthy shades
• Rainbow 
• Pastels

How to find your aura: 

• Stand facing a wall or mirror
• Focus area between your fingers.
• Allow your vision to go slightly out of focus 
• Blink 
• You would see a cloud of colors comming from the sides of you fingers. 
• Not that colour down and find about it. 

If you are still having some trouble about finding out your aura visit https://www.littlethings.com/guide-to-seeing-auras/

Hope you would find your aura. If this blog was informative then don't forget to share it with your friends. 

Lots of ❤

Missable 

Life these days..... relatable

Life is quite a mess these days. I mean..... more or less but it's always a mess. But during this major viral outbreak it is like if there is the cutest baby in your house, and he has turned your whole house as an  upside down mayhem, but the most frustrating  thing is that you can't scold or shout at him because he's just a baby... and both of you can't do anything about it.

Whole world is part of this turmoil. It is like world is under a curfew, where it is forbidden to go outside or else invisible cops would attack on you.

I don't know if I should rather be happy or sad about it that when we prepared ourselves to go through deadly cave of examinations, it was closed before we even touched it. It was my childhood dream....not even a dream but a strong faith that one day, my examinations would be postponed. Oh come on! It was every student's dream. But one fear is always tingling my head that after worldwide problem is solved, exams would welcome us with roses full of thorns.

Fear is prevailing everywhere. These days, even handshake is scary. Imagine if you are walking in a super market to by groceries and a sneeze monster, without mask comes near to you and his mouth is opening, his eyelids squishing against each other you suddenly realize that he is about to sneeze, you tell him to put hand on his face to cover his mouth and nose but.....it's to late.. Trust me, I would faint and start to see myself becoming an angel who is playing a harp.

Nowadays, Earth has reached the top level of hygienity. The ones who are selling masks, sanitizer and soaps could become richer than Bill Gates very soon.

I have become a detective these days, every person whom I see is a suspect for me. Scanning for sickness symptoms, eager to know their travelling history and walking with sanitizers as the most powerful gun in the world. Throwing  it towards the suspect first to kill it's culprit. But if the victim is under the influence of culprit, then there is only one option left....RUN

Hope your life is as relatable as mine. If it is, then don't forget to share
Take care
Lots of ❤
Missable

The lost soul 2/2

Within years, surpassing teenage life. Liza became successful accountant. She used to earn enough to afford luxuries. She had influencing friends all belonging to rich families. 

On other hand, her mother, Vanessa, living in her old apartment, was sitting on a sofa and watching news channels. She was nothing like when she was youthful. Pale face, thin, silver coated hair, trembling hands representing senility. 

Both of them were completely different stories but there was a major difference between them. Although Liza had everything. She was the star of a party, people were influenced by her, she had an amazing social circle, but she never found peace in her life. She was always stressed out. Trying to compete with the world of social media, she lost her inner peace somewhere . Her relaxed soul, was gone. 

On the other hand, Vanessa struggled throughout her life. She never worn amazing clothes, she never had luxurious lifestyle. always worked hard to raise her daughter as a good human. She had one thing that was most precious, her inner peace. 

It was not too late when the time came. Liza was done, done with her adventure of finding inner peace she did everything to get it but we know that we can not buy everything. 

As careless her life made her, she rarely used to visit her mother. One day Liza's old neighbors called her, they told her that Vanessa is sick and need good care. Liza's heart sank, when she realized that in all this hectic schedule, she almost forgot to care after her mom. Within an instant, she rushed towards her old home. 

She took a good care of her mom, beside Vanessa's illness, Liza still used to find a strange type of satisfaction on her mother's face.  It made that young girl think, that even after having everything, her face does not represent serenity. 

When her curiosity passed the threshold, she asked her mother that how she is so relaxed and peaceful even after labouring whole life, Vanessa said,"Do you remember your childhood?" Liza going through a flashback said," Yes".

 Vanessa added," Even though you never had a beautiful, girly room or you never had expensive toys, but you were happy with it because you never used to compare you toys or room with others. You never used to burden your mind after looking other's life. You were thankful for what you had dear. I think you forgot the lesson I always taught you love" 

Liza fell into deep thoughts, she realized how happy she was as a kid and how she lost her peaceful soul. She was weeping, thinking that how much she had lost in all these years. 

After all the emotional talk with her mother, Liza brought her mother at her apartment, always trying to practice thank fullness. After quitting from competitive nature of others, she successfully found her soul, the soul of a happy girl.....

Don't forget to share if you liked the story.

Find your peace.

Lots of ❤

Missable 

The lost soul 1/2

In the era of competition, where tall buildings are made up of glass and iron, where money had the worth and relations were swept under the rug . Little far from city life, there was an old looking building with faded colour and chipped of walls.  There lived a 7 year old girl named Liza. She was the prettiest. She had hazel eyes, complexion was of pink tone, light brown curly hair,a sharp nose, chubby cheeks and the most precious smile.

Her room was ordinary, she had a old looking kids table with mended chairs. Her stuffed toys looked old but they were like gold to her. She did not have a well matched tea set, but it never seemed to bother her little tea party act. She was happy with what she possessed.

There was a knock at her door, it was her mom Vanessa , wearing an ordinary brown shirt and a pair of black jeans. She looked tired and drained, she was working hard to fulfill their needs. She was as beautiful as Liza, I think it was in their genes.

 She told Liza to come and have lunch, she went towards a fragile dining table. They had mashed potatoes with gravy. It wasn't an ideal meal but they were thankful for it. A variety of questions used to pop in Liza's head that why they can't live in a beautiful house and wear beautiful dresses everyday like her friends but she knew the answer, it was on her mother's face.

Vanessa's tired eyes begging for rest, her clothes showed her struggle, her face was wrinkled even though she was a young woman. Her hair were rough and damaged,telling their own story. She wanted to give her daughter everything but her pocket never permit her to do it. So she taught Liza to be thankful to God for what He has provided them.

As the years passed by, whole world came on mobile screens, exhibition of lifestyle became common. In a world full of  swaggers, Liza forgot the lesson that her mom always taught her. She started comparison, she started to blame her mother for not having wealth without caring that Vanessa was suffering from deteriorating health.

She started to dislike her mom, without realizing that her mom strived alone in such a long journey without begging for help.

Time passed by, Liza was a grown up, independent girl, working to step up her game of lifestyle. Without any doubt she was working hard. But in the racing life, she forgot the one who gave sacrifice,the one who taught her to walk when there was no one along. It was not too late when God made her realize her mistake.

To be continued
Lots of ❤
Missable

THE VIRUS

As 2020 started, alot of resolutions were made by people. I had alot of self promises to fulfill too. But nothing goes as planned, I think that's why it's called life.

Our dreamy nights were disturbed when there was an outbreak in city of Wuhan in China, the outbreak of a virus named coronavirus. Little did we know that the whole world would be under the wing of coronavirus.

Thousands of people are affected by this contagious little monster. Being such a communicable infection, every country which is highly influenced by this virus is going through vandalization of it's economy and people's health.

As kids, we all grew up while watching fictional movies. These kind of movies were soo attractive that we always tried to implement them on real life. But soon we found out that iron man will not catch us when we would be falling of a building because its not reel so you have to walk carefully on the roof. 

I always imagined outbreak of a virus like a good series on Netflix. I always thought if there would be a virus, it would be like a dangerous creature. It will infect people and they would become ugly zombie like monsters. Every thing would be burned down and meanwhile, few brave people would combat it and through using their brain and telling incomprehensible biological terms they would find out that far in the pseudonymous island in Antarctica , there would be a lab full of evil scientists that have a devil like boss who wants to rule the world. Those brave survivors would turn down the lab and probably find the antidote there and save the mighty earth. Well..... I think this might sounds good only in movies. 

In practical life, this could never happen but due to this virus, the situation is no less painful. It feels like that everything in paused. Nothing is moving on. Streets are empty. Malls,cinemas, colleges and schools are closed. It looks like even adults are grounded by Mr.corona. 

It is quite a difficult task for extrovert to stay at home when they are social birds. But on other side,introverts find very easy because it's always their dream to not socialize. 

Every place is quiet. Nature sorrounded by people who used to praise it's beauty are unable to listen their admiration by the admirers. Playground that we're used to be filled by cute kids are empty. Nobody is waiting to get home from school, office or university. Nobody can't go out to have brunch with their friends. All vacation plans are cancelled,which is the way to relaxation. Every place is sleeping because everyone is too scared to go out. 

However, it's still a wide spreading infection by which a lot of loved ones are affected. It's better to stay safe at home and to practice every precautionary measures provided by world health organization because nothing is better than being healthy. 

Hope you liked this blog and if you did, then don't forget share it. 

Take care 

Lots of ❤

Missable 

Self love

We often meet different types of people everyday. Each of them have their own personality and charisma. In some part of our lives, we would've wished to be like them, we wanted to be in their skin, we wanted to talk,sit and walk like them and we tried. But somehow we lost ourselves. Our love for ourselves by the time faded away.

Today is an Era of social websites. We've seen soo many instagram and facebook's  ideal life posts that we want to live their life. We see soo much perfection that we have started to dislike our little imperfections. We've seen soo many perfect houses that we find flaws in our little homes. We've seen quite a good number of perfect faces that we want to complain about our features. We've seen alot of perfect social media couples that we question ourselves if we make a good one or not.

If unveiling the truth is a major pro of social media so keep it in mind that it also creates the most beautiful illusion of perfection and idealism. You may not want to be fooled by this illusion.

My perspective of life is that it can never be perfect. It's like a roller coaster. Ups and downs, rocks and hurdles makes it more precious and magical. Everybody are stuck in their perfectly imperfect life problems that makes life attractive.

Instead of idolizing someone's life, face or anything it's better to have love for yourself. Be affectionate to yourself. Be who you are and very proud of it. Never compare your lives with others, that's where all the problems starts.

Little flaws make your life interesting. Earth is not instagram where everything would be perfect but it is real world where anything could happen. It's your self satisfaction which helps you to overcome these ideal masks.

Never loose your personality to be like someone else. Trust me nobody is like you. You are the best in your league. Love yourself,your relationships,your home, your everything. Be thankful for it.  Appreciate yourself for being who you are and serenity would prevail everywhere.

Lots of ❤
Missable

6 ways to fight stress

Stress makes everything go wrong. It could disturb our personal life and could also cease our professional performance. It could scour our mental health, which could have its effects on our surroundings. It's important to solve and overcome this problem rather than letting it deteriorate health.

Stresses could come from many reasons. It could occur spontaneously due to hormonal changes or could be as a result of daily life pressures like debt, dues and deadlines. A pressure to compete, fear to fail or personal life's jinx. There are alot of tips and tricks conquer stress and some of my favourites are listed below.

1.There's nothing to be scared of:

 First of all, tell yourself that it's okay OK stress out. Normal people take stresses and there's nothing to be scared of. There is just a need to balance it out with life as such as its occupies the tiniest space in you which is unseen.

2. Find the reason:

 Find its cause. It's important to search for the root of this problem. Consider what stresses you out. Give yourself time and think with a relaxed mind about the things that freak you out or make you restless.

3.Work on the problem:

 Work on those problems. If due dates are making you feel sick, tell your mind to relax, it all normal, stress won't help you out. Cope with it, compete with it. If there are hurdles or misunderstandings between your relationship, give it a talk. A good, calm conversation always work out to clear all the imaginary mess. In conclusion,think and work on a solution rather see than damaging your health.

3. Caffeine and stress:

 Avoid caffeine. Products containing caffeine can elevate your stress hormones such as cortisol. You would feel good for a while but you would feel fatigue and low after a while.  For more information about caffeine and it's effect on stress, you could visit https://www.verywellmind.com/caffeine-stress-and-your-health-3145078

4. Speak out:

 Share with your people. Can't take it anymore? Too much frustrated? Share your problems with those whom you trust. It's not only make you feel a little bit relaxed but also their advice would help you out. Speaking with them would make you think that there's a light at the end of this tunnel.

5.Time out:

 Take a break. Done with all these headaches? Can't take it anymore? Plan a break for yourself. A good self-care break helps to heal alot. It could come in different perspectives. Go for a vacation or having a cozy time at home, being with friends, family or anything that's makes you comfortable and happy works like a miracle.

6. When it's out of hands:

 Seek medical advice. When non of it is working and nothing is helying  you to come out of stress. Then it's better to go for a medical advice before situation worsens. They would take a good care of you problem of being stressed out for a healthy you.

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Feelings

Feelings... looks like a small word from a dictionary but a word with the meaning of its own. It has it's own complexity. A word which could be felt like an abstract. Knowing it's meaning is not enough, but perceiving it means alot. A little door towards people heart. Once you start to understand its code and how it works. A door towards people heart starts to open.

It does not require alot of educational degrees of masters or practice to understand it, it just requires a good,soft and humble heart, filled with humanity and emotions to understand it. It needs love, affection, time, care , and serenity to be understood.

Calling it a word would be unfair. Instead, it's a language of its own. Which is spoken by heart, felt by heart and listened by heart. Voices are not necessary for it. Because feelings are so vocal that they could be seen on our face in the form of emotions. 

It's tough sometimes to perceive what your loved one feels. But it becomes easy when you love them, when you care for them even you are not so familiar with each other but you are concerned as a good human, then you  show token of affection. This makes the roots of a relationship strong when you are able to speak without talking, understand without hearing  and loving without signifying. 

People are called "sensitive" when they feel alot. But it's totally okay. You feel because you have a heart. You feel because you have emotions, you feel because you care and it's a beautiful character of yours. 

It's like a bond to the people, the pillar of a relationship, and attraction to the soul and a seed to the future fruit. 

Humans are not born cruel, selfish, as tough as a stone or rude. Surroundings make them like that. When there is no one to understand what they are going through,when their heart is screaming but no one is listening to it, when their soul is wrenched but no one can feel their wounds. It makes them tough, hard and emotionless. With time, their feelings fade away. Then we see them as a selfish rude person but little did we know that each of us have played a magnificent role in making them who they are. 

Take a deep breath, open your heart, let it fly, unbound your soul. Be the listener of other's unspoken words, be their motivator, be their sunshine not for a reward, but for a beautiful world.

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Patience and compromise

We work hard. We plan perfection, sometimes it is accomplished, sometimes doesn't. Life is moving so fast that we have lost our patience. It is a very important aspect to live a better life. But somewhere in this busy and high tech world. We lack patience and compromise. 

Our ego have rose up so high that we can't bear anyone's critics. We get rude, we get sensitive, even that critics or advice could make us or our work better but we can't bear those words because we think that it is our insult if someone is telling something. 

This is accompanied by not compromising. Life is full of compromises. At any part of our life, sometimes, we have to step back for better future, better relationships and better bond. But we don't, which makes our relationship, our bonds weak and vulnerable. And in the end with our proud ego and non-compromising attitude, we stand alone. 

We all know that great things take time, but this phenomena is not understood by everyone.  We, actually, hate to wait. We want everything fast in life, which could be a start of making wrong moves. Patience has the best reward. It can make us go towards a successful and yet fruitful way. Being patient help us to build our tolerance and enhance our decicion making. Some blissful decicion takes time but end up being perfection. 

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Living To compete

We are born. Since that day, we are competing to live. Striving for a respectable life. We are assigned a target and a road. Some of us want to follow it and some of us don't.  But as is is declared as "ONLY RESPECTFUL WAY TO LIVE " we are running to achieve it. We don't know if it belongs to us or not, either we are suitable for it or not. Maybe a better, beautiful way is waiting for us. But we are running like maniacs with others to compete them.

We are getting compared with other, with the ones who follow that stereotyped goals and we are sometimes obliged to follow that. Not all doctors are amazing surgeons, not all engineers are successful, not all accountants are designated at senior posts. Some of them could've been great artists, amazing writers, amazing religious representative , but they are all send in race. A race to compete , a race to be better than other , a race to beat someone, a race to become selfish. So that they can they can live up to mark without realising that how did they reach there.

Our all life starts with competition with others. We are brought up by being compared with others. We don't like those who are better then us. We start to tattoo jealousy for them. We grow up, now it doesn't matter how we've achieved that assigned goal either by pushing others away or by draining a beautiful part of life. One day we reach it. We feel accomplished, respected and winner. But at a certain age realise that that was not our path, that was not our destination. Our happiness as a achiever fades. We start to regret, we start to blame ones who assigned us that landmark when we weren't even smart enough to to tell difference between eight or wrong. And whole life ends being in a regret.

Before it's too late. Realise your goals. Make you own path. It would definitely be a struggle but in the the end, it's fruit would be the sweetest.  Choose the way you love, don't care about world, they would critic you when you haven't selected the path they made for you. But world looks amazing when our inner soul is satisfied. The foremost important thing is to satisfy our soul , our mind so that at any part of our life we could be happy who we are and where we belong.
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