Showing posts with label insecurities people. Show all posts
Showing posts with label insecurities people. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 8, 2020

How to be chill AF

How to be chill:

Some critics in life are worth a lesson but alot of them are just lame as an organized cupboard. Some critics help you to groom as a person and some just let you down.
Here are some tips and tricks to be chill without humiliating others:

  • Train your brain to be in third dimension when these kind of meaningless and useless talks are being held. 
  • Never argue alot with them because they can never stand an argument and they would start to hit upon your personal lives.
  • Prefer not to take them seriously cause they never think before uttering crap and it could harm your good traits.
  •  Never dread if your deadlines are near. You should have confidence on yourself that you can fulfill any task given.
  • Maintain some distance with them because they can leave you with dull and dark aura. https://onemissablelife.blogspot.com/2020/03/aura-science-and-reasons-behind-it.html
  • Try to truce yourself in public places cause later, it could feel unpleasant.
  • Mediate. It detoxifies your body and increase our maturity for sudden responses. 
  • Say NO to things that makes you uncomfortable or dissatisfied.
  • Give yourself some time
  • Spend money on events that makes you happy.
  • Spend time with those whom may know to cheer you up.
  •  Saunter around nature. 
  •  The most important, " love yourself". 

Thursday, April 2, 2020

Living in the dark side

Living in the dark side: 

How are you? Is everything good? I hope it would be. What? Something is not okay. Are you happy? What's bothering you? What's the thing that's resist you from being happy? Let's find it together. 

Let's see. Someone dumped you? Okay this didn't happen. Do you want some money? Again no... so what's the problem. Let me think, Can't get out of your wounded, painful, and bleeding past? Oh! I can feel you. That's why you resist people and you lack trust. Someone closest to you really stabbed you. 

I know, it happens and it hurts alot. It feels like world is not trustable. Even that past is over, it still have some influence on us.

We move on, but not completely.  We meet new people and after a while we do not like them, we begin to see their negative sides a.k.a their dark side. This way of observing can even hurt those who loves us the most.

It's no one's fault. The problem is simple that when we start to live in past, we compare everything to our past which is alot of times, wrong. We think that whole world is dark, but actually we are in the dark side of life.

You are not only living in the dark, but you are also loosing you present and future for it. We become enclosed in such a dark, deep cave that we don't like even the smallest glare of light. We get used to smell of drowned wrecks and algae that scent of beautiful flower irritates us.

Opening of eyes is not the only thing important for living, you have to open your heart to so you can slay the enlightened, fragrant and delicious side of world.

World does not entirely consist of bad people, if it was, either nobody knew what happiness means or humankind would've become extinct.

Fight with your dark side, feel the light and you'll soon have a precious smile on your face all the time ☺.
Hope this blog would lift you up.
Lots of ❤
Missable 

I just realized something. The message that I've resisting or trying to avoid is now in front of my eyes. The deeper you understand it...

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