Why Most People Will Never Be Great At LIFE, LESSONS,EXPERIENCES

 A normal day in the home, Laying in my room.  Had nothing to do, I suddenly started to stoop towards the core of thoughts. It's strange how doing nothing makes your brain function faster. Just a random thought on life.

Life is like an onion, it's a mystery is enveloped by various layers of fallacies, indulgences, allures, bitterness, and complexions. It gets hard to peel each layer out to uncover what's underneath it.

One's who tries to excavate this paradox goes through pain, clashes, and tears. Some don't bother to go through this majestic maze because it's too glamorous to slove.

All these years before we were born, emperors, leaders, saints, soldiers, commandos, Sufis, dervishes, kings, and queens appeared. Most of those who had powers to govern people were fascinated by the embellishments, wealth, proclamation and big palaces that they forgot what life is. Actually, they were the ones who never explored life. They got what they wanted by their ability to give commands. While on another hand, Sufis saints and beloved people of God gave their soul for the search of Almighty by the means of which they found their definition of life. They were never aroused by all frills and they were the ones who knew the true meaning of breathing.

We can't learn lessons while laying on the bed of roses. It's necessary to go through the forest of thorns. Rain won't seem lovely if there won't be drought before it. Even stale food is tempting and delicious when you are starving for days. You won't know what love is if you are not hurt before.

Life is nothing unless you experience it. Leaving all the cliché behind and try to explore on our own. You will fall, you will rise, but not losing rope of exploration would be wise.

Lots of 💘
Missable

The most important thing people have forgotten..

One thing that poeple have forgot: 

We live in a world where we all are being observed by people 24/7. We live in a world where we are judged by anonymous and annoying people all the time. We live in a world where we point finger on other people rather than keeping it in our pocket. 

The most important thing that people have forgot is that they are human. What I mean to say is that they are not perfect. They might have considered themselves as angels. 

Each person has two side, enlightened one and the dark one. Each person is living with either hell or heaven inside him. Sometimes, he is not responsible for choosing the dark side or the hell but some circumstances compelling him to do so. But he has a strong believe that one day he will make his heart as beautiful as a humming bird but unfortunately, he forgot that people would never let him do that. 

Everyone should remember that we live in our shoe and that shoe could be replaced from comfortable one to painful one anytime. 

This one thing hurts me the most, ranking people based on who they are. Oh come on! Even if we are perfect, Mighty God will not give this right to anyone. Nobody lives in our heart except God therefore, the one who knows us the most is Him. 

We need to stop judging people, I think there would be less suicides if we start loving each other equally. Everybody is fighting an evil inside them and sometimes they win and sometimes they loose. All we can do is to appreciate them in the fight of becoming a better person. 

We can never find the love of God if we won't stop hurting his mankind with our words. 

Lots of ❤ 

Missable 

How to be chill AF

How to be chill:

Some critics in life are worth a lesson but alot of them are just lame as an organized cupboard. Some critics help you to groom as a person and some just let you down.
Here are some tips and tricks to be chill without humiliating others:

• Train your brain to be in third dimension when these kind of meaningless and useless talks are being held. 
• Never argue alot with them because they can never stand an argument and they would start to hit upon your personal lives.
• Prefer not to take them seriously cause they never think before uttering crap and it could harm your good traits.
•  Never dread if your deadlines are near. You should have confidence on yourself that you can fulfill any task given.
• Maintain some distance with them because they can leave you with dull and dark aura. https://onemissablelife.blogspot.com/2020/03/aura-science-and-reasons-behind-it.html
• Try to truce yourself in public places cause later, it could feel unpleasant.
• Mediate. It detoxifies your body and increase our maturity for sudden responses. 
• Say NO to things that makes you uncomfortable or dissatisfied.
• Give yourself some time
• Spend money on events that makes you happy.
• Spend time with those whom may know to cheer you up.
•  Saunter around nature. 
•  The most important, " love yourself". 

How to find perfection in people:

How to find perfection:

Everything around us is a creation. Everything around us is just a masterpiece crafted with finesse and delicacy. But in reality, its not an ideal masterpiece.

Any event planned by state of the art organizers is just an absolute perfection. It seems like even the air is directed to blow at a impeccable time. But in reality,  it's nowhere to perfection.

Just like things created by people in this world, Perfectionism is a word that is not implicated on humans. Perfection means the thing without any flaws and there is no such person without flaws.

 The point that I am trying to say is that nobody is ideal but it's our eyes and heart which makes it either flawless or ugliest.

We see what we want to see, we listen to what we want to hear and we consider those perspectives that we want to understand.

Our bodies and souls are entirely different from each other, that's why the definition of being indefectible is different for everyone. It's something inside you that's decide your perfection or flaws.

Let's appreciate each other the way we are, let's be thankful for what we have and for what we can do. Let's see things from various visions and minds. Let's be smart enough to not to implement dictionary's word "idealism" in real life.

Lots of ❤
Missable

Living in the dark side

Living in the dark side: 

How are you? Is everything good? I hope it would be. What? Something is not okay. Are you happy? What's bothering you? What's the thing that's resist you from being happy? Let's find it together. 

Let's see. Someone dumped you? Okay this didn't happen. Do you want some money? Again no... so what's the problem. Let me think, Can't get out of your wounded, painful, and bleeding past? Oh! I can feel you. That's why you resist people and you lack trust. Someone closest to you really stabbed you. 

I know, it happens and it hurts alot. It feels like world is not trustable. Even that past is over, it still have some influence on us.

We move on, but not completely.  We meet new people and after a while we do not like them, we begin to see their negative sides a.k.a their dark side. This way of observing can even hurt those who loves us the most.

It's no one's fault. The problem is simple that when we start to live in past, we compare everything to our past which is alot of times, wrong. We think that whole world is dark, but actually we are in the dark side of life.

You are not only living in the dark, but you are also loosing you present and future for it. We become enclosed in such a dark, deep cave that we don't like even the smallest glare of light. We get used to smell of drowned wrecks and algae that scent of beautiful flower irritates us.

Opening of eyes is not the only thing important for living, you have to open your heart to so you can slay the enlightened, fragrant and delicious side of world.

World does not entirely consist of bad people, if it was, either nobody knew what happiness means or humankind would've become extinct.

Fight with your dark side, feel the light and you'll soon have a precious smile on your face all the time ☺.
Hope this blog would lift you up.
Lots of ❤
Missable