End of an year.

As 2019 is ending, its not only an end of an year,but also an end of a decade. This is the decade in which I grew up mature. The time in which we all started to make life goals. Some of them achieved their goals and some went for a better one.

As this year is ending. It was definitely a roller-coaster. An year full of emotions, fears,conquest,celebration,grief,sorrow,joy and happiness.

We all learned something from this year. We made some huge mistakes to. This year taught us alot of lessons,heartbreaking and how to move on.

It taught us no matter how big your wounds are, time would never stop for you. Your wounds would only become painful. But when you move on with life, those would will start to heal.

We learned to forgive and forget. Trust me, if you want to live your best life. It's always better to forgive and forget someone's mistakes. This is a symbol of a beautiful heart.

Enjoy your life to the fullest. It's too short to regret. Everyday should be a happy day. Regretting always on your mistakes would do nothing than spoiling your day.

End your day on a good note and be ambitious for comming one.

Lots of 💖
Missable

Mental health..

You are not mad if you are seeing a psychiatric.  You are not abnormal in any way. Alot of poeple even in this well educated and modern era think that considering an appointment with a psychiatric or with a psychotherapist is a deal of an abnormal person. But in reality,its not.

Everyone in life goes with a certain trauma. It's time period could either be short or very long. These trauma can also disturb our mental health and can damage our calm, serene life. It can bother us for a long period of time, sometimes we could not tell it to anyone because we are too scared to share it. These kind of incidents can alter our behavior from our normal life and it could be odd.

What a psychiatrist does is diagnose us with our mental ailment or the thing which makes our life really odd and far from normal one. And what a psychotherapist does is they treat our mental disturbance without medicines. But the thing is how does it works.

It's different for different people. They talk to you,they guide you, they decommision your fears. They try their best to eliminate the hurdle that is bothering you. And it's good for you.

If you love yourself, then take care. Even with a minor thing that bothers you or disturbs you routine, go and have a session with a therapist. There are alot of people around you that love you. If they aks you to consult a psychotherapist,go for it because they can't see you disturbed and want you to live a happy life. Life is precious,take care of it.

Lots of 💖
Missable

It's not easy to control weight

How do you manage to loose weight?how are you this smart? I wish I could be like you? To be honest, it's a struggle.

I don't know what's with my body but I can easily gain two to three pounds of weight by eating half of a burger. It's hard to manage and loose weight. Heart cries internally because sometimes it becomes hard to control binging.

Some people around me eat like a dinosaur and are as skinny as a deer. Sometimes it makes me jealous. I mean. How their stomach works?do they have two more of them? If they have, I want them too.

I feel like I gain weight only looking at chocolate. And some legends eats several of them and there is no change in their body. 

When I have a body like this. It's necessary to manage food portions and count calories. If I  have to lose weight, I have to go through a proper diet and exercise . It's tough man. But it's a good way to to maintain a healthy myself.

I still want to eat like a dinosaur and be as skinny as a stick. But I'm happy with whining God has provided me. I have to maintain my myslef but everything's good as long as I'm confident with myself.

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Nature..

How beautiful nature is.
It reminds us about the one who created it.
One with soothing colors.
Relaxing our minds.

It's bright colors makes us happy.
It gives us fresh air to breathe.
Act like walls for an animal's house.
A floor for bird's nest.

A shadow in a scorching sun.
A source of food for herbivores.
The one who attract clouds,so they could rain.

Filled with serenity.
Where you can find yourself.
Soothing sounds calm us down.
When we are going through anxiety.

It relieve stresses alot.
Nature doesn't only mean forests.
You can grow them at home too.
Some lovely plant at the balcony.
Help to cure your soul too.

Little pot plants,some attractive roses.
Would make your home beautiful too.
Make your life full of nature.
And you'll feel good too.

Never try to be perfect.

Life is too short. We don’t know when and which day would be our last day. So why should we waste our life by thinking negatively or living sadly.

 We should appreciate and learn from our each and every moment. Hence we are not perfect, we all make mistakes, try to learn from those mistakes.

 There are many ups and downs in our life. Nobody’s life is perfect. Whenever something good happens in our life we become so happy and feel lucky, but if something bad happens we suddenly forget all the good moments and start to compare with those who are living good and happy life and are superior to us. At that time we feel more upset and unlucky. Instead of feeling sad or depressed, try to face the problems in a positive way. 

I know it’s not easy but also not impossible. We should think about those who have nothing and living a tough life than us and always be thankful to God. Even we should try to help them. 

Instead of comparing your life with others and thinking that what others have, we should concentrate on own life and try to groom ourselves. Have patience, motivate others so people will feel good vibes around you.

 Do fun and creative things. Try to help others because your positive vibe can change someone's life from worst to better. If people don't appreciate you, so it's ok! Try to appreciate yourself. Be a kind and humble person.

Finally, forgive easily and don’t take grudges inside you against anyone nor think to take revenge. Be trustworthy. As life is short, live it beautifully. Spread love, peace, and happiness. 

These beautifull words are by a beautiful girl named safa amin. These words are are pretty as her soul and these sentences are beautiful piece of motivation.

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Things people want to tell you

Things people want to tell you.

They might look grouchy, but they could be sweetest when you are good to everyone. 

They might look shy, but they could be as savage as snoop dog.

They might look calm, but they  could be as fierce as fire.

They might look nerd, but they can pull off any look better than you.

They might look dumbo, but surely not more than you. 

They may not interact with cool class mates, but They could be as sassy as them if they want to.

You think that they might have got ready to impress you, but I've got ready to realize that they don't need anyone to make themselves look gorgeous.

They  might not talk alot, but when they do, they make it sure that those words are remembered by everyone.

They might look dull, but they could be as adventurous as you.

They might look boring,dull,grumpy. But when you come to know them, you're gonna enjoy at your fullest.

Negativity.. and how to cope

Ever felt negative? What a disastrous feeling. It feels like nothing is going good even it is. You don't like people even they are sweet to you. You always think that there is a negative intention behind their sweetness. We think that everyone is deceiving us. We don't expect anything good from the future. 

The power of negativity is so strong that it could damage people's minds for lifetime. It could literally subtract people from your life. It has no light in its tunnel. It damages minds. It makes your life hopeless. It forces you to find a bad habbits in people first rather than appreciating their positive side.

Negativity can come from anything. It drains you from inside. I think it's biggest reasons are sometimes news channel or negative media, which sometimes, try to show the negative side of life, it makes us think that life is a major disappointment. Negative dramas, fictional or non fictional characters, some underwhelming circumstances of life can spoil it. But its not the end.

The first believe should be that everything happens for good. Second, the one who owns this world have better plans for you. Third, no one is perfect so we should stop finding minor imperfections and accept what they are and finding a positive aspect in them.

Positivity is something that always adds good stuff in your life. Let it go what's leaving you and welcome those who are entering into your life. Life is great, be thankful for it.

Lots of 💖
Missable

A cursed day..

It's normal to have a day full of curses. Everyone can relate to it. It happenes to me very often. Just a throwback to a recent cursed day.

As I'm a dental student. Life is not easy. Each and every student is struggling to manage their personal, professional,healthy and social life at times. Same happened to me.

Due to extreme syllabus I wasn't able to maintain my  sleep routine. It have been alot of days since this was happening. I was tired,falling asleep even in a leisure minute.

So the thing is that I was sleepy, I wasn't able to focus on my lectures. Maybe sleep was not an reason. My brain takes time to memorize stuff. So, there was a dental material lecture in my class, professor came and started to tell the steps of "fabrication of partial denture" maaaaaannn!

There were atleast 25 steps, I do not belong to the family tree of Albert Einstein. Even he would've found struggle to remember it all at once. Trying my best to recover my sleepy soul and focus on my lecture. Some points were taking time of mine to understand.

As I was trying to get my life together and trying to learn and understand terms at once. Professor called me on the dice and asked me to tell all those 25 steps.

Let me tell you, it took me a while to learn my phone number. And he was asking me to tell those 25 steps, I mean come on!

My friends are best. They were trying to tell me from the back through writing on the notebook but the cherry on the cake was that I forgot my glasses at home that day.  So this partially blind girl wasn't able to see anything clearly.

Anyways, I told half steps, felt a itty-bitty of insult. Then who cares man. But it was not over. While in lab, my model got rejected, more than 9 times, my phone credit was finished, I got a headache and much more. I seriously loved my life upto 3000 at that time.

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Digitally alone

I've always heard from my parents that their decade(somewhere in the 20th century) was more joyous people of that time had strongest relations and deep mindset.

 I've always felt being criticized as our older ones never liked this part of decade. I always thought that how a past without advanced technology, no social media, no youtube, no drama on net and no phone or Internet. How could it be fantastic?

As I'm growing older (not that old). It made me realized that how technology sorrounds us but we are still left alone. We have a thousands of friends on social media but we barely can talk in gatherings.

Whenever dinner was served, everyone gathered round the table and used to have a healthy conversation. Cracking some dad jokes, discussing future plans etc. Now everyone love to have dinner while faces towards modern,slim smart led tv ,eating without mumbling.

People used to wait for letters of their loved ones. Waiting for arrival of postman, tremendous harmony of receiving the note full of love, feeling emotions through those words that made them smile. Now we are used to ignore calls so we can chat only if we are not busy enough.

Family gatherings were used to be fun. Having chit chat with aunts, teasing cousins, cracking lame jokes on which everyone used to laugh hard. Now, everyone's heads are buried in the device which emit light and shows tremendous amount of drama and funny videos.

In our elders era, they were curious for their neighbours,friends and relatives. Always taking care in their forfeit. Now we are more interested in celebritie's lives and fuel happening between them. Little do we know if our neighbour next door is starving or stuck in family feud.

Technology is amazing. Buts sometimes it slowly makes us alone by grabbing us in her cozy arms. Making us digitally alone. We can't refrain from it but we can also maintain a good healthy life with it.

Lots of 💖
Missable

Nomads.

A nomad wandering around. 

With no residence around.

Trying to just pass a life. 

Without diplomacy going around.

They live in a portable house.

Making a society of their own.

Does not not migrate according to weather.

But do by watching habitat that sorrounds.

Some depend on their herds.

Some live in a society.

But are always functional in a mobile way.

They include traders too.

Who sell their precious products.

And hire out as labourers too.

Some are related to agriculture.

Moving from place to place.

To find new area to raise their crops.

They also do hunting and loves some kinds of gatherings.

They are smart and interesting kind of people. 

Who have explored different cultures.

They love to explore the world.

Positivity is the best part of them.

They don't rely on someone to be attached to.

They love some"me time" when there's a beautiful place around.

Nomads adjust fast,that's their best part.

Nomads are declining in this era.

But there are alot of digital Nomads evolving. 

Whom have to move from place to place for their work.

We can call them modern era Nomads with some elevated but same lives.

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Sorround yourself.

Surroundings are important for everyone. Ot makes you who you are. It has a influence on your mind. It makes your personality. 

Sorroumd yourself with people who appreciate your presence.

Sorround yourself with whom who motivate you at any part of life.

Sorround yourself with people who respect your belongings. 

Sorround yourself with people who love the way you are.

Sorround yourself with people who don't point out your imperfections or defects.

Sorround yourself with people who don't take advantage of your weakness,but enhances your strength.

Sorround yourself with one who can make you smile even at toughest parts of your life.

Sorround yourself with people who are there for you at your worst time.

You'll get surrounded by these kind of people when you'll be one of them.

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Missable 

16 DECEMBER...A DAY NO ONE CAN FORGET

16 December 2014. a normal day at school. Everyone was enjoying at school. Everyone considered it as a safe place,a second home for kids it was a hapy day. I came back home, I didn't watched tv and after changing,went for nap. I woke up, my mom was sitting next to me, she was crying,her whole face was covered in tears, she wasn't able to control herself.

 At a short distance from her my father was sittng with tears falling on his face. He was controlling himself. A little bit sleepy,I heard a news that a school that is army public school, full with students,was attacked by terrorists. it was a sudden shock, a sudden terror. a genocide of innocent kids who can't relate to war. There was a mourn all over country like everyone have lost their loved ones. 

Total deaths were 149 and non fatal injuries were 114. there was blood all over school. small diaries,backpacks, shoes and uniforms were covered in blood. I saw those footage, I burst into ters. I was 13,for me school was a second home to me. what did the kids do? they were not involved in politics, they were not involved in warfare, they were innocent.

they killed God's angels, they killed he innocent babies who couldn't understand the term terror, they killed the young,handsome,strong blooded generation. They killed teachers, one with the noblest profession. They killed those who were their parents only reason to struggle,to laugh,they were the reason why world doesn't seemed harsh to them.

Consider a mother,who keeps her baby 9 months in a womb,take care of that little bundle of joy with sleepless nights,tiring eyes and finds joy in her childs smile. Never in her wildest dreams she thought that her child would never came back. i felt that,i felt that when I saw painful tears in my mother's eyes. that fear of losing a loved baby.

Man is strong.  He knows to control his emotions. he struggles to give his child the best. his only support when he would get old, hopes from his young blood to take care of him. But his dreamy,charming son never came back.his little daughter who used to relieve all his pain, went to heaven leaving the deepest wound in her father's heart that could never be recovered in this world.

they're gonna meet again,meet again with their families,in heaven,the most perfect place ever created. where they would hug their mom, laugh with dad and play with their siblings. They would become a beautiful family again. closest to God.

Miss world 2019.. Beauty redefined

"To that little girl in St. Thomas, Jamaica and all the girls around the world - please believe in yourself. Please know that you are worthy and capable of achieving your dreams. This crown is not mine but yours. You have a PURPOSE," Toni-Ann Singh-- Miss World 

She belongs from Jamaica. She was crowned as Miss World on December 14th,2019 in London,United Kingdom.

She is 23 years old. Graduated from Florida State University 

   She was not only crowned as Miss World, but also she is the breaker of old world stereotypes of beauty. 

 She moulded beauty in new defintion. Every skin, every feature of every girl is beautiful when your heart is as beautiful as a sapphire. Every girl can achieve her dreams no matter who she is or which country she belongs. This 23 year old, is simply an example for us that nothing is impossible in this world. 

She is the 4th representative of Jamaica that is crowned as Miss world.

Tips for studies..

It's impossible to learn whole book word by word and remember it till exams. Not everyone is Einstein. I hope he would've not crammed books either. We all go through this mountain,I asked my friends for some tips and included mine too so these are some simple tips that would prevent pre-exam anxiety.

. Make a study plan:
    Relax and sit for a while and make a study plan. Focus more on the subjects which are hard and you have not covered yet. Give them more time in your study hours as they har hard to understand.

. Never miss lectures: 

           No matter how comfy your bed is,or you are enjoying a beautiful funny day with your friends. Never miss lectures. Especially for the subjects who are very conceptual. No matter you are focused alot or a little bit, a part of that lecture would retain on your head that's gonna help you out while reading the topic.

. Make notes: 

      During a lecture or while reading a chapter,make notes of it that's gonna help you out and you won't need to open a big head chapter. Just go through your notes for quick revision.

. Make flow charts and diagrams: 

      Can't remember procedures of chemistry or stuck in nerves of biology? Go for flow charts. They are easy to remember and drawing it for 3 to 4 times consecutively will make you memorize that chart. Drawing diagrams by yourself will surely gonna clear your concepts.

. Color coding:

      Colour coding can be very effective if you want to revise directly from the book. You can use 2 colours one for the important stuff & other for what you should know.

. Take breaks:

      Take small breaks while studying but don't make them too long or you'll break the tempo.

. Make your own mnemonics!

      Or you'll end up either forgetting the mnemonic or what it means😂

. Good sleeping hours: 

       So your sleeping hours should be enough to make u attentive , it doesn't mean that you have to sleep more than your need. We remember two things the most:

1) what we studied just before sleeping

2) what we studied just after getting up

. Chewing gum:

        helps stay active and increases concentration during study.

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Lots of 💖
Missable 

A dying flower.

Flowers are beautiful. Aren't they? A beautiful part of nature that God created. Resembles alot in humans.

Beautiful from both sides. They need care. Emerge from a seedling. Want alot of earthy love. They grow us as we care. We can loose them at their early stage due to reckless behavior.

They are born weak, they need protection, they need all survival from us.

They grow up. In a beautiful sunshine. Stretching their petals to reach sun. Blooming themselves.

 But what when there is no sunshine in their life. They stretch for it, look for it, then they start to gloom. They loose their hope. They start to die form inside. But no one cared.

After a while their dying face can be seen. Still some care and sun will help to emerge them. It's not too late. We can fix it. But who cares.

What if we don't? They start to die in front of us. We start to fix it but it's too late. We mourn over dead. How beautiful they were. How precious they were. And we unfortunately lost them.

It was not unfortunate. We killed them. We saw them struggling. We saw their thirst, we didn't care. We saw them dying ,we didn't do anything. And when we lost them, we cry for them, we get sad, we start to miss them, we move on .. isn't that strange.

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Missable

A ray of hope.

A room full of dark, you can't see anything. Everything feels scary. You are drowning from inside. You feel down inside. Then, a ray comes, a ray of light, that pulls drowning you up,calm you down, shows you a hint of way even with its smallest size. You get yourself up,start to move, and finally accomplish to light up the whole room. Ever thought a ray would be this important.

Hope becomes this little ray of light when this world is bright but your heart is getting dark, when spring is full of colors but colors of your life are fading away, when everyone around you are floating and you are sinking. When the world is elevating and you are depressing. When everyone heals and you can't.

When we are losing all battles of life, a little ray of hope awakes inside us which makes us push ourselves till end which is a path of accomplishment. Hope makes us to strive to fill colors in our life. Hope could be a lifeguard for sinking you.

You can be your best hope. You are the only one who can push yourself. You are the only one who can elevate yourelf  with your efforts. Don't be hopeless from yourself and you would be able to find an excellent company of people around you. Nobody can change you except yourself.

A little ray of hope in you can withdraw the biggest change in yourself. From accomplishing your goals to getting rid of your worst habbits. Push yourself till end,even if you are tired,don't loose hope and mighty God will help you too.

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Frequently asked Q's with Thier A's (brown version)

Are you a brown (desi) person who grew up in a family full of people. We are giving answers to people (especially curious ones) all the time. Sometimes,they want to hear answer of their choice but gets upset by not hearing it. It's not polite to be rude to anyone and behave aggressively. We can answer there typical questions with a sweetest face so why not? Some of the typical questions I've heard from my friends and have been asked to me are follows:

1. WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, A DOCTOR OR AN ENGINEER?
                             As brown kids we've all grown up with a myth that there are only two respectful professions in this world,either a doctor or an engineer. But it's not true. Every profession has its own respect and have a worth of its own.
Answer: Both of these professions are excellent but I have been always attracted towards arts and abstracts to i would love to go with a field that is inclined towards it.

2. YOU ARE SO DIFFERENT..WHY YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL AS YOUR MOM/DAD?
                          Everyone is beautiful in their own skin and people who question this can surely annoy anyone.
Answer: (start with a laugh) "you can ask God why I'm so different and let me know too". 😉

3. ARE YOU ENGAGED?
              A question that every brown girl have heard. Because she is grinning while using her phone.
Answer: (give a sweet smile) yes! I'm engaged with memes🙂 I'm sure you are too😉

4. HOW YOU HAVE SUCH A SHORT/ TALL HEIGHT?
              Felt attacked?? We surely do.
Answer:Start with a laugh,then say" Angels did not stretch me/ stretched me too much while I was asleep that's why I remained short/ became tall".

5. WHEN YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED?
              The question that give cringes. Come on dude! Give her some time. Some time to explore herself,time to establish herself.
Answer: you can definitely cope with this question by giving a big smile and saying" I'll surely invite you when it would be happening" and thats it.

You don't need to be rude all the time.Sometimes,good words with a sweet face can help you out.
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Missable

Bullies...

There are millions of people in this world. Each of them is different. Some people have an amazing soul and some are like a beast. Everyone has their own nature.

The people who bullies other people,for me are ill mannered and have not developed ethics. They are grown in a place where they have not seen people respecting and caring for each other.

They bully some because of their weight. They'll bully a skinny person,little they know that this skinny person is anemic and is suffering from their own stresses. If they are bullying chubby one, they don't know that these cute one's are already struggling to loose weight. Everyone have their own body shape and they should be proud of it.

They are bullying someone because of their color. I think they have forgotten that all these colors are made by God and no color have superiority over each other. No matter what Their skin tone is, they all are beautiful in front of whom have beautiful eyes.

People get bullied because of thier skills,posture,nature. Especially in colleges and high schools. One of the major reason of suicides is bullies which make them feel that they are a failure moreover with other stresses.

No matter what color we have,no matter how rich or poor we are,no matter what is our hair type,height,skin and background. We all are equal humans of God and we all deserve equal respect. Be fearless and raise your voice against bullies for yourself and others too. We have a voice, our voice against these people would not only help us to protect ourselves,but also people around us.

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Missable

Examination's species explained.

Anything worst than a nightmare? Ever heard of a living nightmare? Ever heard of exams? I hope you surely can relate the chains. 

If you are a student or ever been a student you know what exam feels are. You know how the drain everything out of you. You know how the make you sleepless. 

That anxiety is worst when exams are near. You think that you have studied nothing while your classmates have crammed the whole books and are stress free because they have learned everything. Lemme tell you one thing, they think the same about you 🙊. They are the one like you.

You trust your friends. You think they haven't even opened the book. You think that they are crying because they haven't even read a single chapter,they don't even understand a definition or the are not focused on studies. If you have friends like these, get ready to celebrate their distinction. The time when you'll be wondering how the hell they managed to get highest marks in just one night although you don't know how big nerd they are.

Let's talk about class toppers. We can relate them to amphibians. Well, they are all active during whole year. Being apple of eye of all teachers,getting applause and hanging a tag of being genius, talking with sophistication and wisdom. They are a different species of their own. And when exam's season starts, they hibernate, nobody on earth knows that where they are because they have buried themselves in book in a room of their house. And after exams,comming out as a dancing frog. Even their families have little problem in distinguishing their kid after a big hibernation form the world. 

Let's talk about back benchers. They are chiller than Antarctica. They somehow managed to entertain Thier class whole year. They help others, they enjoy their life at its best. And still manage to clear the exams. They do not cry for highest marks because they know a single report sheet is not remembered in practical life.

No matter which category you belong. You are a gift from God and you should be proud of it. Never loose confidence from yourself because you are smart and efficient in you own way and you can nail any part of you life😊😊. Surely you've found these kind of people around you.

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5 bag's essentials

We are constantly working and travelling. Nobody likes to run out of stuff or miss basic things which matter the most in daily life. At work/college etc these are some must haves in the bag that coulday save the day.

1. Wipes: these are essential for wiping dirt out of your face or to clean the mess on your hand occurring at any place. 

2. Sanitizer: you surely love clean hands. Nobody wants to have a meal with dirty hands full of bacteria and organisms. Sounds gross. Always have a mini bottle of sanitizer that is travel friendly so you could use it anytime.

3. Mouth freshners:  Had garlic chicken? You can smell it in your mouth after eating it and so others. To prevent this kind of embarrassment, you can grab minty Mouth freshners such as tic-tac in your bag to save the mighty day. 

4. Perfume: A miniature perfume is always good to carry. Nobody knows when it could come in handy. 

5. Chapstick: working all day and being dehydrated can make your lips chappy and dry which are not presentable. You can carry a Chapstick to rescue your lips or if you are a girl, go with a tinted lip gloss. 

Feminism and society (extended)

We are well known with this word "Feminism". In my teen and young age, I always found this word very complexed. It was very tough for me to understand its meaning. To elaborate it to someone. I often heard women say "we are feminists",and so following them I also started to call myself a feminist. Few months or almost a year back I understood the term FEMINIST, what I think a feminist is or should be. It's not about critics,it's about my own thoughts.

How can I describe Feminism? For me Feminism is equal rights for men and women. What is included in this equal rights. Well....for me it's like to have equal respect, opportunities on merit like for other gender, and not making them weak but encouraging them to be confident and appreciating them for their good work.

For me, Feminism does not means being comparing themselves with men. God created different genders, they both have different qualities, no gender is inferior to each other. Each of them have their own charisma and power.

Sometimes I saw some feminists trying to behave like men ( a kind of I'll mannered man who doesn't have ethics) trying to prove that they are equal. Why do women have to behave like men to show themselves equal? Why don't women be their own? Be who they are? And those who are,they are amazing as a woman as well as a person.

I also saw men degrading women and considering them inferior to them. I can say without a doubt that all men are not same. Those men wo consider women inferior to the definitely have small egos and they definitely think women growing up their society and a respectable and successful personality could damage Thier self respect and could make the weaker.

Let me tell you. It's not true. It's a woman who raise a generation, she makes a future, she deserves all respect no matter if she is a housewife or a CEO of ma multinational company. And those men who thinks that women are nothing and only them make the world and they hold the power should consider that where they came from. Those men who respect women and in no prespecrive of life,consider them inferior deserve massive respect and they earn a high status in ethical society.

Feminism is not only about wearing what we want,do what we want to do or go where we can. It is also about protecting rights of a female, preventing injustice with them, protecting each other, wellbeing of same gender, it's about raising a women who is not weak, not vulnerable, who is best at her own, who owns respect, who contributes to our society at a greater extent, who makes a better future.

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Missable

A pleasure without guilt.

Most beautiful feeling of the world is sleep. Isn't it beautiful? The only thing we could do to relax ourselves.

Through it we could hide our blunders, we could hide our emotions, we could hide our tears, we could hide our anxiety and stress.

It's relaxing in its own way. Scientifically during sleep, our body repairs itself and specific hormones and body regulating transmitters. A power nap during an exhausting day can give you extra energy. Compromising on sleep can cause serious health problems which, unfortunately, lead to a sick and unconscious life.

But sometimes sleep can cause us serious problems. As oversleeping can also cause some serious problems. But who cares when it's relaxing.

There are some best and worst places to sleep but sleep looks beautiful at worst places and we could never sleep in best places.

Worst places to sleep are classes, during work, at serious moments, at an event, and all those places where if there was a law for sleep, it would've been a crime sleeping there. In short, in all active moments of life, sleep becomes most beautiful and attractive fairy of the world. It attracts you like a warm bowl of soup in winters. A beautiful piece of 4 layered chocolate cake, most stunning and embelleshed Givenchy dress.

When you spend all of your day and you lay on bed but you can't sleep. You are shutting your eyes up trying to make a barrier but you can't. You suddenly start to recall all those memories of past and start to regret. You could've given a better answer in a argument that happened 3 years ago. Your could've worn red dress instead of blue at your cousin's wedding 5 years ago. Your could've gone for a better haircut few months ago.

It all happens and it's okay. But everything requires moderation as so sleep. Give yourself an amazing beauty sleep and enjoy your day.

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Who's to blame?

We are living in a world where technology is at its finest. People are modern. They are constantly changing myths and are adapting smart mindset. Still there are found some idiotic trash bags who thinks that people are nothing but a toy.

It's her fault if she was abused. Clothes couldn't be a reason for increasing number of abuses. Ever thought about it?

What about women wo are raped dead, what about young kids wo doesn't even know what the world is die due to extreme abuse and internal injuries?? What was their fault? Was their skin exposed too?

Ever we wondered how it alters their minds and lives? It's equal to destroying a beautiful future. What about women? Don't they have rights to love a successful life no matter what race,religion,caste or color she belongs.

The ones who abuse the precious creature of God have no mental stability. They are psychopaths whom can cross any boundary created by almighty to fulfill their dirty arousals. They do not fear of God. They don't have a heart. We can't even call them animals because it would be offensive for a animal.

Nobody's deserve this. No matter if they are a sinful person or innocent as angels. Nobody deserves a ruin life. Nobody deserves to cry in front of a psychopath, begging pardon.

World is getting more dangerous as walking it is walking towards technology. Now, it's our responsibility to spread awareness and teach our generations self defence so that any time,they can protect themselves from these wild creats.

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Sign of proportionality

We are all well known with the sign of proportionality. We've always used this sign in laws of physics and chemistry. All these signs can relate to our life which can sum everything up. Let's take it up to next level.

1. The amount of useless thinking is directly proportional to stress.

2. Changing yourself for people is directly proportional to loosing your personality.

3. Chances of laughter is directly proportional to seriousness of a situation.

4. Intensity of sleep is directly proportional to how important lecture is.

5. Enjoying is inversely proportional to caring what people around you thinks about you.

6. Depth of friendship is directly proportional to how open they are in front of you.

7. Your mom's anger is directly proportional to your usage of phone.

8. The frequency of not liking someone is directly proportional to your friends not liking the same.

9. Separating in a relationship is directly proportional to egos.

10. Your recognition as an obedient child is directly proportional to your time of waking up🙂

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The golden doors.

We are busy in chasing our goals. We are managing our lives. Making a monthly budget to do some savings. Stressing out to pay monthly bills. Busy in higher education to change some part of our life. Somewhere in this hectic schedule, we often miss our childhood, those were the days when we were dependent but were more relaxed  than being independent.

We were caring, playing with toys, had no stress. We used to fight with our siblings but after a while we were best friends again. But now we care less, we don't play with toys instead we play with hearts, we have alot of stress. Now, we argue with our siblings and not become friends again.

We used to chase butterflies with our friends, we used to cry in front of them and we used to console them. Now, we are busy in chasing our goals, we hide our tears in front of them and we are too busy to soothe them.

We used to share everything with our family, we used to laugh with them for no reason, we always dreamt to be independent one day so we can do what we want. Our parents used to buy clothes for us. Now, we've learned to hide secrets,we look for a reason to laugh with them, we are independent but recae those magical days when we were dependent. Today, we are buying clothes for our parents.

Little things used to make us happy, bit now, little things doesn't worth it. We used to get annoyed at family gatherings. Now, we wait for those.

We used to play in rain and enjoy every bit of moment. Now, we don't want to get wet in rain.

We were used to be in search of love but now we are in search of fame and wealth.

We used to have long conversations with our loved ones but now we barely talk to them.

Our heart was used to be pure but now it is filled with hatred, jealousy and vengeance.

We loved to be surrounded by people not now we love to spend time alone.

We used to be anxious to grow old and now me miss being a kid.

Every part of our life is beautiful but we can admit that our childhood was awesome.
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