Feelings

Feelings... looks like a small word from a dictionary but a word with the meaning of its own. It has it's own complexity. A word which could be felt like an abstract. Knowing it's meaning is not enough, but perceiving it means alot. A little door towards people heart. Once you start to understand its code and how it works. A door towards people heart starts to open.

It does not require alot of educational degrees of masters or practice to understand it, it just requires a good,soft and humble heart, filled with humanity and emotions to understand it. It needs love, affection, time, care , and serenity to be understood.

Calling it a word would be unfair. Instead, it's a language of its own. Which is spoken by heart, felt by heart and listened by heart. Voices are not necessary for it. Because feelings are so vocal that they could be seen on our face in the form of emotions. 

It's tough sometimes to perceive what your loved one feels. But it becomes easy when you love them, when you care for them even you are not so familiar with each other but you are concerned as a good human, then you  show token of affection. This makes the roots of a relationship strong when you are able to speak without talking, understand without hearing  and loving without signifying. 

People are called "sensitive" when they feel alot. But it's totally okay. You feel because you have a heart. You feel because you have emotions, you feel because you care and it's a beautiful character of yours. 

It's like a bond to the people, the pillar of a relationship, and attraction to the soul and a seed to the future fruit. 

Humans are not born cruel, selfish, as tough as a stone or rude. Surroundings make them like that. When there is no one to understand what they are going through,when their heart is screaming but no one is listening to it, when their soul is wrenched but no one can feel their wounds. It makes them tough, hard and emotionless. With time, their feelings fade away. Then we see them as a selfish rude person but little did we know that each of us have played a magnificent role in making them who they are. 

Take a deep breath, open your heart, let it fly, unbound your soul. Be the listener of other's unspoken words, be their motivator, be their sunshine not for a reward, but for a beautiful world.

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Patience and compromise

We work hard. We plan perfection, sometimes it is accomplished, sometimes doesn't. Life is moving so fast that we have lost our patience. It is a very important aspect to live a better life. But somewhere in this busy and high tech world. We lack patience and compromise. 

Our ego have rose up so high that we can't bear anyone's critics. We get rude, we get sensitive, even that critics or advice could make us or our work better but we can't bear those words because we think that it is our insult if someone is telling something. 

This is accompanied by not compromising. Life is full of compromises. At any part of our life, sometimes, we have to step back for better future, better relationships and better bond. But we don't, which makes our relationship, our bonds weak and vulnerable. And in the end with our proud ego and non-compromising attitude, we stand alone. 

We all know that great things take time, but this phenomena is not understood by everyone.  We, actually, hate to wait. We want everything fast in life, which could be a start of making wrong moves. Patience has the best reward. It can make us go towards a successful and yet fruitful way. Being patient help us to build our tolerance and enhance our decicion making. Some blissful decicion takes time but end up being perfection. 

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Living To compete

We are born. Since that day, we are competing to live. Striving for a respectable life. We are assigned a target and a road. Some of us want to follow it and some of us don't.  But as is is declared as "ONLY RESPECTFUL WAY TO LIVE " we are running to achieve it. We don't know if it belongs to us or not, either we are suitable for it or not. Maybe a better, beautiful way is waiting for us. But we are running like maniacs with others to compete them.

We are getting compared with other, with the ones who follow that stereotyped goals and we are sometimes obliged to follow that. Not all doctors are amazing surgeons, not all engineers are successful, not all accountants are designated at senior posts. Some of them could've been great artists, amazing writers, amazing religious representative , but they are all send in race. A race to compete , a race to be better than other , a race to beat someone, a race to become selfish. So that they can they can live up to mark without realising that how did they reach there.

Our all life starts with competition with others. We are brought up by being compared with others. We don't like those who are better then us. We start to tattoo jealousy for them. We grow up, now it doesn't matter how we've achieved that assigned goal either by pushing others away or by draining a beautiful part of life. One day we reach it. We feel accomplished, respected and winner. But at a certain age realise that that was not our path, that was not our destination. Our happiness as a achiever fades. We start to regret, we start to blame ones who assigned us that landmark when we weren't even smart enough to to tell difference between eight or wrong. And whole life ends being in a regret.

Before it's too late. Realise your goals. Make you own path. It would definitely be a struggle but in the the end, it's fruit would be the sweetest.  Choose the way you love, don't care about world, they would critic you when you haven't selected the path they made for you. But world looks amazing when our inner soul is satisfied. The foremost important thing is to satisfy our soul , our mind so that at any part of our life we could be happy who we are and where we belong.
Lots of 💖
Missable

End of an year.

As 2019 is ending, its not only an end of an year,but also an end of a decade. This is the decade in which I grew up mature. The time in which we all started to make life goals. Some of them achieved their goals and some went for a better one.

As this year is ending. It was definitely a roller-coaster. An year full of emotions, fears,conquest,celebration,grief,sorrow,joy and happiness.

We all learned something from this year. We made some huge mistakes to. This year taught us alot of lessons,heartbreaking and how to move on.

It taught us no matter how big your wounds are, time would never stop for you. Your wounds would only become painful. But when you move on with life, those would will start to heal.

We learned to forgive and forget. Trust me, if you want to live your best life. It's always better to forgive and forget someone's mistakes. This is a symbol of a beautiful heart.

Enjoy your life to the fullest. It's too short to regret. Everyday should be a happy day. Regretting always on your mistakes would do nothing than spoiling your day.

End your day on a good note and be ambitious for comming one.

Lots of 💖
Missable

Mental health..

You are not mad if you are seeing a psychiatric.  You are not abnormal in any way. Alot of poeple even in this well educated and modern era think that considering an appointment with a psychiatric or with a psychotherapist is a deal of an abnormal person. But in reality,its not.

Everyone in life goes with a certain trauma. It's time period could either be short or very long. These trauma can also disturb our mental health and can damage our calm, serene life. It can bother us for a long period of time, sometimes we could not tell it to anyone because we are too scared to share it. These kind of incidents can alter our behavior from our normal life and it could be odd.

What a psychiatrist does is diagnose us with our mental ailment or the thing which makes our life really odd and far from normal one. And what a psychotherapist does is they treat our mental disturbance without medicines. But the thing is how does it works.

It's different for different people. They talk to you,they guide you, they decommision your fears. They try their best to eliminate the hurdle that is bothering you. And it's good for you.

If you love yourself, then take care. Even with a minor thing that bothers you or disturbs you routine, go and have a session with a therapist. There are alot of people around you that love you. If they aks you to consult a psychotherapist,go for it because they can't see you disturbed and want you to live a happy life. Life is precious,take care of it.

Lots of 💖
Missable

It's not easy to control weight

How do you manage to loose weight?how are you this smart? I wish I could be like you? To be honest, it's a struggle.

I don't know what's with my body but I can easily gain two to three pounds of weight by eating half of a burger. It's hard to manage and loose weight. Heart cries internally because sometimes it becomes hard to control binging.

Some people around me eat like a dinosaur and are as skinny as a deer. Sometimes it makes me jealous. I mean. How their stomach works?do they have two more of them? If they have, I want them too.

I feel like I gain weight only looking at chocolate. And some legends eats several of them and there is no change in their body. 

When I have a body like this. It's necessary to manage food portions and count calories. If I  have to lose weight, I have to go through a proper diet and exercise . It's tough man. But it's a good way to to maintain a healthy myself.

I still want to eat like a dinosaur and be as skinny as a stick. But I'm happy with whining God has provided me. I have to maintain my myslef but everything's good as long as I'm confident with myself.

Lots of 💖

Missable 

Nature..

How beautiful nature is.
It reminds us about the one who created it.
One with soothing colors.
Relaxing our minds.

It's bright colors makes us happy.
It gives us fresh air to breathe.
Act like walls for an animal's house.
A floor for bird's nest.

A shadow in a scorching sun.
A source of food for herbivores.
The one who attract clouds,so they could rain.

Filled with serenity.
Where you can find yourself.
Soothing sounds calm us down.
When we are going through anxiety.

It relieve stresses alot.
Nature doesn't only mean forests.
You can grow them at home too.
Some lovely plant at the balcony.
Help to cure your soul too.

Little pot plants,some attractive roses.
Would make your home beautiful too.
Make your life full of nature.
And you'll feel good too.