16 DECEMBER...A DAY NO ONE CAN FORGET

16 December 2014. a normal day at school. Everyone was enjoying at school. Everyone considered it as a safe place,a second home for kids it was a hapy day. I came back home, I didn't watched tv and after changing,went for nap. I woke up, my mom was sitting next to me, she was crying,her whole face was covered in tears, she wasn't able to control herself.

 At a short distance from her my father was sittng with tears falling on his face. He was controlling himself. A little bit sleepy,I heard a news that a school that is army public school, full with students,was attacked by terrorists. it was a sudden shock, a sudden terror. a genocide of innocent kids who can't relate to war. There was a mourn all over country like everyone have lost their loved ones. 

Total deaths were 149 and non fatal injuries were 114. there was blood all over school. small diaries,backpacks, shoes and uniforms were covered in blood. I saw those footage, I burst into ters. I was 13,for me school was a second home to me. what did the kids do? they were not involved in politics, they were not involved in warfare, they were innocent.

they killed God's angels, they killed he innocent babies who couldn't understand the term terror, they killed the young,handsome,strong blooded generation. They killed teachers, one with the noblest profession. They killed those who were their parents only reason to struggle,to laugh,they were the reason why world doesn't seemed harsh to them.

Consider a mother,who keeps her baby 9 months in a womb,take care of that little bundle of joy with sleepless nights,tiring eyes and finds joy in her childs smile. Never in her wildest dreams she thought that her child would never came back. i felt that,i felt that when I saw painful tears in my mother's eyes. that fear of losing a loved baby.

Man is strong.  He knows to control his emotions. he struggles to give his child the best. his only support when he would get old, hopes from his young blood to take care of him. But his dreamy,charming son never came back.his little daughter who used to relieve all his pain, went to heaven leaving the deepest wound in her father's heart that could never be recovered in this world.

they're gonna meet again,meet again with their families,in heaven,the most perfect place ever created. where they would hug their mom, laugh with dad and play with their siblings. They would become a beautiful family again. closest to God.

Miss world 2019.. Beauty redefined

"To that little girl in St. Thomas, Jamaica and all the girls around the world - please believe in yourself. Please know that you are worthy and capable of achieving your dreams. This crown is not mine but yours. You have a PURPOSE," Toni-Ann Singh-- Miss World 

She belongs from Jamaica. She was crowned as Miss World on December 14th,2019 in London,United Kingdom.

She is 23 years old. Graduated from Florida State University 

   She was not only crowned as Miss World, but also she is the breaker of old world stereotypes of beauty. 

 She moulded beauty in new defintion. Every skin, every feature of every girl is beautiful when your heart is as beautiful as a sapphire. Every girl can achieve her dreams no matter who she is or which country she belongs. This 23 year old, is simply an example for us that nothing is impossible in this world. 

She is the 4th representative of Jamaica that is crowned as Miss world.

Tips for studies..

It's impossible to learn whole book word by word and remember it till exams. Not everyone is Einstein. I hope he would've not crammed books either. We all go through this mountain,I asked my friends for some tips and included mine too so these are some simple tips that would prevent pre-exam anxiety.

. Make a study plan:
    Relax and sit for a while and make a study plan. Focus more on the subjects which are hard and you have not covered yet. Give them more time in your study hours as they har hard to understand.

. Never miss lectures: 

           No matter how comfy your bed is,or you are enjoying a beautiful funny day with your friends. Never miss lectures. Especially for the subjects who are very conceptual. No matter you are focused alot or a little bit, a part of that lecture would retain on your head that's gonna help you out while reading the topic.

. Make notes: 

      During a lecture or while reading a chapter,make notes of it that's gonna help you out and you won't need to open a big head chapter. Just go through your notes for quick revision.

. Make flow charts and diagrams: 

      Can't remember procedures of chemistry or stuck in nerves of biology? Go for flow charts. They are easy to remember and drawing it for 3 to 4 times consecutively will make you memorize that chart. Drawing diagrams by yourself will surely gonna clear your concepts.

. Color coding:

      Colour coding can be very effective if you want to revise directly from the book. You can use 2 colours one for the important stuff & other for what you should know.

. Take breaks:

      Take small breaks while studying but don't make them too long or you'll break the tempo.

. Make your own mnemonics!

      Or you'll end up either forgetting the mnemonic or what it means😂

. Good sleeping hours: 

       So your sleeping hours should be enough to make u attentive , it doesn't mean that you have to sleep more than your need. We remember two things the most:

1) what we studied just before sleeping

2) what we studied just after getting up

. Chewing gum:

        helps stay active and increases concentration during study.

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Missable 

A dying flower.

Flowers are beautiful. Aren't they? A beautiful part of nature that God created. Resembles alot in humans.

Beautiful from both sides. They need care. Emerge from a seedling. Want alot of earthy love. They grow us as we care. We can loose them at their early stage due to reckless behavior.

They are born weak, they need protection, they need all survival from us.

They grow up. In a beautiful sunshine. Stretching their petals to reach sun. Blooming themselves.

 But what when there is no sunshine in their life. They stretch for it, look for it, then they start to gloom. They loose their hope. They start to die form inside. But no one cared.

After a while their dying face can be seen. Still some care and sun will help to emerge them. It's not too late. We can fix it. But who cares.

What if we don't? They start to die in front of us. We start to fix it but it's too late. We mourn over dead. How beautiful they were. How precious they were. And we unfortunately lost them.

It was not unfortunate. We killed them. We saw them struggling. We saw their thirst, we didn't care. We saw them dying ,we didn't do anything. And when we lost them, we cry for them, we get sad, we start to miss them, we move on .. isn't that strange.

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Missable

A ray of hope.

A room full of dark, you can't see anything. Everything feels scary. You are drowning from inside. You feel down inside. Then, a ray comes, a ray of light, that pulls drowning you up,calm you down, shows you a hint of way even with its smallest size. You get yourself up,start to move, and finally accomplish to light up the whole room. Ever thought a ray would be this important.

Hope becomes this little ray of light when this world is bright but your heart is getting dark, when spring is full of colors but colors of your life are fading away, when everyone around you are floating and you are sinking. When the world is elevating and you are depressing. When everyone heals and you can't.

When we are losing all battles of life, a little ray of hope awakes inside us which makes us push ourselves till end which is a path of accomplishment. Hope makes us to strive to fill colors in our life. Hope could be a lifeguard for sinking you.

You can be your best hope. You are the only one who can push yourself. You are the only one who can elevate yourelf  with your efforts. Don't be hopeless from yourself and you would be able to find an excellent company of people around you. Nobody can change you except yourself.

A little ray of hope in you can withdraw the biggest change in yourself. From accomplishing your goals to getting rid of your worst habbits. Push yourself till end,even if you are tired,don't loose hope and mighty God will help you too.

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Frequently asked Q's with Thier A's (brown version)

Are you a brown (desi) person who grew up in a family full of people. We are giving answers to people (especially curious ones) all the time. Sometimes,they want to hear answer of their choice but gets upset by not hearing it. It's not polite to be rude to anyone and behave aggressively. We can answer there typical questions with a sweetest face so why not? Some of the typical questions I've heard from my friends and have been asked to me are follows:

1. WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, A DOCTOR OR AN ENGINEER?
                             As brown kids we've all grown up with a myth that there are only two respectful professions in this world,either a doctor or an engineer. But it's not true. Every profession has its own respect and have a worth of its own.
Answer: Both of these professions are excellent but I have been always attracted towards arts and abstracts to i would love to go with a field that is inclined towards it.

2. YOU ARE SO DIFFERENT..WHY YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL AS YOUR MOM/DAD?
                          Everyone is beautiful in their own skin and people who question this can surely annoy anyone.
Answer: (start with a laugh) "you can ask God why I'm so different and let me know too". 😉

3. ARE YOU ENGAGED?
              A question that every brown girl have heard. Because she is grinning while using her phone.
Answer: (give a sweet smile) yes! I'm engaged with memes🙂 I'm sure you are too😉

4. HOW YOU HAVE SUCH A SHORT/ TALL HEIGHT?
              Felt attacked?? We surely do.
Answer:Start with a laugh,then say" Angels did not stretch me/ stretched me too much while I was asleep that's why I remained short/ became tall".

5. WHEN YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED?
              The question that give cringes. Come on dude! Give her some time. Some time to explore herself,time to establish herself.
Answer: you can definitely cope with this question by giving a big smile and saying" I'll surely invite you when it would be happening" and thats it.

You don't need to be rude all the time.Sometimes,good words with a sweet face can help you out.
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Missable

Bullies...

There are millions of people in this world. Each of them is different. Some people have an amazing soul and some are like a beast. Everyone has their own nature.

The people who bullies other people,for me are ill mannered and have not developed ethics. They are grown in a place where they have not seen people respecting and caring for each other.

They bully some because of their weight. They'll bully a skinny person,little they know that this skinny person is anemic and is suffering from their own stresses. If they are bullying chubby one, they don't know that these cute one's are already struggling to loose weight. Everyone have their own body shape and they should be proud of it.

They are bullying someone because of their color. I think they have forgotten that all these colors are made by God and no color have superiority over each other. No matter what Their skin tone is, they all are beautiful in front of whom have beautiful eyes.

People get bullied because of thier skills,posture,nature. Especially in colleges and high schools. One of the major reason of suicides is bullies which make them feel that they are a failure moreover with other stresses.

No matter what color we have,no matter how rich or poor we are,no matter what is our hair type,height,skin and background. We all are equal humans of God and we all deserve equal respect. Be fearless and raise your voice against bullies for yourself and others too. We have a voice, our voice against these people would not only help us to protect ourselves,but also people around us.

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